Opinions or advice (kind of long) - Page 2

1Quick88 · 01-02-2007, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Crazzy_Al

That's warning her of your intentions. That only makes shit worse for you. That let's her know that she can start looking for new cock so that she doesn't have any down time when you break up with her. That extrra time also allows her time to start taking your stuff, money, etc. Fuck that! Treat her like a band-aid, pull away from her FAST and without warning!

good point..dont say anything at all to her..just have all of her stuff packed away in boxes for her one night when she gets home

Crazzy_Al · 01-02-2007, 04:45 PM

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Originally Posted by 1Quick88

good point..dont say anything at all to her..just have all of her stuff packed away in boxes for her one night when she gets home

Yeah, And if you can time it perfectly to where you have all her bags in the living room for her to see when she opens the door while you bang her best friend in the middle of that same living room, you REALLY win the game!

Try my way, you'll like it the best!

1Quick88 · 01-02-2007, 04:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Crazzy_Al

Yeah, And if you can time it perfectly to where you have all her bags in the living room for her to see when she opens the door while you bang her best friend in the middle of that same living room, you REALLY win the game!

Try my way, you'll like it the best!

**BigWheelinBubba** · 01-02-2007, 04:47 PM

Lets be serious (stfu Al, i know you're gonna say you are serious lol) but lets try and help the guy.

Unfortunately im sure we all know how it feels to be in this situation.

Boomer! · 01-02-2007, 04:47 PM

It is my house, kicker her out would be tough because of my stepson, he would have no place to go as with her.. HA she would have no way to leave either....DAMN that sucks.
As for her phone, she never would be dumb enough to leave a number on there I would find as she know I caught my ex that way.
We have been together for 5 years so if I kick her out, she'll find her way to my family as her relatives all live hours from here.

I guess I'll have to put the hammer down.

Here is what I'll say tonight. No way are you getting a car, ring ,wedding or any of your bills paid with the way things are as of lately. If you don't like it there is the door, don't think for a minute that in a couple of weeks things are going to change. This will be something that will need to be prooven of a long period of time, not weeks but months or years.

I feel she will get my point ,if she leaves then I know she has bad intentions, if she stays I don't do a damn thing for her until she earns them.

This is going to be crazy...... wish me luck she'll be home any minute....

**BigWheelinBubba** · 01-02-2007, 04:49 PM

1Quick88 · 01-02-2007, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by white96GT

It is my house, kicker her out would be tough because of my stepson, he would have no place to go as with her.. HA she would have no way to leave either....DAMN that sucks.
As for her phone, she never would be dumb enough to leave a number on there I would find as she know I caught my ex that way.
We have been together for 5 years so if I kick her out, she'll find her way to my family as her relatives all live hours from here.

I guess I'll have to put the hammer down.

Here is what I'll say tonight. No way are you getting a car, ring ,wedding or any of your bills paid with the way things are as of lately. If you don't like it there is the door, don't think for a minute that in a couple of weeks things are going to change. This will be something that will need to be prooven of a long period of time, not weeks but months or years.

I feel she will get my point ,if she leaves then I know she has bad intentions, if she stays I don't do a damn thing for her until she earns them.

This is going to be crazy...... wish me luck she'll be home any minute....

Wish you all the luck man! Hope things work out for the best

Xx96GTxX · 01-02-2007, 04:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Crazzy_Al

That's warning her of your intentions. That only makes shit worse for you. That let's her know that she can start looking for new cock so that she doesn't have any down time when you break up with her. That extrra time also allows her time to start taking your stuff, money, etc. Fuck that! Treat her like a band-aid, pull away from her FAST and without warning!

Best advice yet!!!!

Xx96GTxX · 01-02-2007, 04:52 PM

good luck man, hope everything works out for you

Crazzy_Al · 01-02-2007, 04:57 PM

Damn, you're backed into a corner. Don't let her know that. Good luck.

StangRacer · 01-02-2007, 05:41 PM

Good luck man, just keep the guns locked up.

Boomer! · 01-02-2007, 05:56 PM

Well just a I figured , went over like a fart in church. Of course tears right away and all, she tried the sorry thing. This time I'm not budging not an inch.

Al, there won't be a next time. I will be going the route suggested and packing her shit for her, it seems I have gotten my point across.

Thanks everyone for the advice and I will not tolerate anymore crap.

1Quick88 · 01-02-2007, 06:48 PM

like i said before, hope everything works out for you. From the sounds of it, it seems like the right thing to do.

357windsor · 01-02-2007, 10:32 PM

Sounds like you did the right thing-get the out of the relationship asap!

Crazzy_Al · 01-03-2007, 08:36 AM

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Originally Posted by white96GT

Al, there won't be a next time. I will be going the route suggested and packing her shit for her, it seems I have gotten my point across.

Thanks everyone for the advice and I will not tolerate anymore crap.

Good work! It's probably for the best.